It is very difficult for girls. They're told to look one way, but to act another way.
Your inner knowing is your only true compass.
You may not seem able to change some outer circumstances but you can start by changing your inner experience of life and yourself.
You manifest based on who you are already so you must own the identity of the dream in order to manifest it.
Information can bring you choices and choices bring power educate yourself about your options and choices. Never remain in the dark of ignorance.
If every year is a marble, how many marbles do you have left. How many sunrises, how many opportunities to rise to the full stature of your being?
For what is it to be blind, but to find safety in the darkness and to become the spouse of habit whose name is ignorance.
Don't let anything stand in the way of you claiming and manifesting the life that you choose rather than the life you have by default.
Choose beliefs that serve your soul choose beliefs that serve the grander dream of who you choose to be.